Hello! longtime listener and first time poster, with a unique question I cant find an answer to ANYWHERE! My wife and I had been interested in the vibe at Desire for awhile. We are monogomous, but love the risque feel andand sexually charged atmosphere. I also, would love to tan my cheeks. we are a very fit, early 40's couple, and my wife is gorgeous. here is the question though. My wife is a breast cancer survivor. she kicked its ass at 32. To do that though, she had to have a double masectomy, had implants, but no nipples. this has been a struggle for her, for obvious reasons on body image. and the idea of topless, is terrifying as she dorsnt want to be judged or stand out because of it. It makes total sense. she posted in reddit once asking how thst would go..to go to Desire and be topless with no nips...and the trolls came out in force. "why would you even want to do that" etc. bad forum for that clearly. for those who have been to Desire or TTR....your honest feedback would be great. she is a fierce and sexy lady, who is also hilarious. would it be disturbing, or accepted? (my opinion here is biased of course, i think she is hot as hell, so she doesnt count mine, lol)
I would think it would greatly accepted.. Nobody in this world is perfect so if they don't like it, they can look the other way.. You guys deserve to have fun and not be judged.. Go and enjoy yourselves!!!
@InNeedOfSun First of, congrats to your wife on kicking cancers ass! F*ck cancer! And yes, it would greatly accepted. Nobody is there to judge anyone.
Congrats to her. Power thru Strong fuck the trolls. She’s a survivor. As long as she loves herself and you love her that’s all that counts
Be proud!! Everyone will understand if and they don’t, look at it as a way to educate people. Fuck cancer! My wife passed from cancer. Fight the good fight!
I think she would be completely accepted--and if she brought it up, she'd be congratulated by everyone there. But to be fair to your wife's feelings, there are some incredible lines of sexy bikini tops she could wear and I don't think anyone would say a word.
Reddit is nothing but trolls. I dont think anyone would look down on her at all! You'll find that the nicest people ever go to Desire. Go and let them breath in that Caribbean sun!
Definitely will not be frowned upon at all!!! If she is self conscience about it she could use some nipple covers at first until she does feel comfortable!! (Just an idea not saying that she needs too of course)
