Can't agree more with you traveltime, our friends think the place is wild because of what they've read in the British press and what they've seen on TV but it's far from wild. The first time we went we booked wanting a wild holiday but it was far from that. We thought it was quite childish but we weren't used to the college/frat mentality. Now we think the place is fab, really loved our second trip and can't wait to go back in September. We'd love to do a trip to Desire but it's very expensive from the UK.
we just tell them we are going to cancun - its all they really need to know t and i do whatever the hell we want but we aint going to get out a bullhorn and jump up and down and run all over the place telling everyone we are going to temptations (or any other place we frequent for that matter) every person on the planet keeps things from certain people - dont feel bad about doiNg whatever you like and not brodcasting it - rob
We don't think you put your foot in it at all. It's a genuine concern for you as we all want our kids to do the best they can etc. If you guys are happy etc and she turns out the same then it's all worked out well xx
There were actually 2 families there last week which was different. One mexican family had mom, dad son and 2 daughters. Their son ended up doing a naked belly flop in front of all of them. Then later in the week there was a mom, dad , daughter and friend from Iowa and the mom was topless the whole time.
Daughters My Daughters were doing things way before I decided you only live once. I remember what I did in College and I have heard and seen what kids do today. America gets the rap for being so loose, and we do not allow so much that is normal in Europe and other countries. Take topless or nude sunbathing.....only a few places will allow that in the States...then there are even beaches that will not allow thongs.....so as americans we are so stuffy and caught up with what others think at times.....It is good to see that not all americans are that way....It is funny I come to Mexico meet people go home and tell everybody and the first thing I am ask....didn't you feel uncomfortable....I say no...nobody cares....it is all about fun....so if you are uncomfortable telling them the play by play do not tell them...I would bring my daughters...would bring my sons....would not take my top off in front of the sons...
Re: Daughters which is funny because it's probably the first body part they'd ever seen but I get why it's different now
Re: Daughters kk turns 21 in may of next year and if we can bring her for our late april early may trip we certainly will and she will have a blast.....she knows us and she drinks with us and partys with us all the time dont get too down on americans and our quirks though :wink: - i cant think of a single place on the planet that is perfect and while i would be the first to agree that there is a genuinely puritan mindset ingrained within the psyche of our country............ ..............our pluralism and religous tolerance (oddly enough the same components that helped create our fear of nudity) is strangely the envy of most countries as i have said before and will say again for most of these people (self included) we pretty much do whatever the hell we want to do when we want to do it - but out of respect for others (in our case mainly our parents) we dont tell them where were going likewise out of respect for us...........even though our parents think we are on a fast track to hot devils hell where they serve up habanero basted ribs 24/7.............they dont tell us that everyone hides things from people so lets not get too pompous and act like we never do instead perhaps we should step back and try and help them find real solutions to their very real concerns rob/t
Re: Daughters lmao hear ya talk about a difficult thing kk is always asking me for her 21st if i will buy her a rack like her mom has :wink: which puts me in an incredibly awkward position - always joke with t and our friends about it along these lines and i know this beyond sick but go with me on this lmao my friend troy said "so rob are you gonna get kk a rack for her birthday or not?" my response "troy the bottom line is this...........she aint ready or mature enough to handle what it will do to her and if i spend all that damn money on a rack for kk - then you can bet your ass im going to want to see them" just sayn :wink: rob