When you walk up to the front desk to check out, it feels like you are leaving everything behind and it is a very sad day.......lol You give them everything during your stay and they just cut off the wrist band......[emoji24] .....lol Sent from my SM-G920V using Tapatalk
.... but you might just show up at the Quiet Pool when a group of folks is following mine leader in the taking over of the bikini Bar for some naked bodyshotting, just sayin'! There. Mostly quiet, sure, but sometimes, Sexy Vibe invades, but that is not a bad thing, just a thing.
Temptation is the most laid-back atmosphere we have ever experienced. Not in a "sleepy" way, but in a "chill" way. Nothing is "in your face."
This is as accurate as you can get. This will be our third trip and it only gets better every trip. Have a blast and don't worry about the small stuff. Mrs. Papa G.
My wife and I had the same reservations, we arrived and assimilated quickly. We are not swingers but enjoy putting and watching a good show from time to time. But as many have stated relax enjoy and do only what you feel comfortable doing. Everyone there is there for the same reason to enjoy themselves in judgement free zone. We never felt pressure to go beyond our comfort level. I know after your there you will forget what you were worried about and remember "No one knows you, and no one gives a shit".
As everyone has assured you, it's not sex in your face 24/7. Understandable though to think that. When I entered the lifestyle, I was shocked at the response from a vanilla lover at the time - he too assumed that a party meant walking in the door, dropping your clothes and getting down to it on the mattresses all over. Not at all. Many people are in the social aspect of the lifestyle and the DTF parties tend to be where it's by private invite only with the understanding that there is chemistry between all people involved such that there will be sex in your face. But otherwise, most parties include all aspects for all lifestylers from socializing and dancing to heading to the play area for some horizontal tango.
I have two pieces of advice for first timers, besides every thing that was mentioned before. The most important is to keep an open mind, don't expect anything as we are going back for our 5th time this year and it is always different. You will meet people who are in the lifestyle, be polite if you are not and they will be very respectful. We have made many friends there that are both into and not into the lifestyle and we all still hang out and try and get back there together for another great time. The second would be to avoid the tour. Don't fall into. You don't need them for reservations. You don't need them for directions in fact you don't need them for anything. You are going to get a map, walk straight behind you the empty bar (Paddy O's) and get your bearings. They will consume half of your day trying to get you to buy a vacation.
