Same for us, just because we go here, people think we must. And what is more funny is when people we meet who are swingers tell us that eventually we will be ourselves. Last year someone gave us 5 years, this year someone else told us 2 years. Sorry folks, aint happening! "just the 2 of us, building castles in the sky...."
We have been into this for along time..... we would never say that to anyone..... if they wants this lifestyle they will get into it... and we also know that its not for everyone..... to each their own we say...... do what you want..... we love the lifestyle and don't have any plans on giving it up anytime soon..... we find that ppl also think that just because your a "swinger" you sleep with anyone..... we have heard that alot..... its not all about sex..... to us its about living open with each other... and having fun.... at the end of the night or day we are always together...... 17 years swinging and still going strong.....
I do not think you understood what I meant and I can't really elaborate.:aktion069: It wasn't meant as any sort of dig or insult.
pretty sure we understand :whisper: We know that it works for some people and not for others, we just happened to be in the not for others category
That's so funny. Went straight over their heads lol. There's lots of things we said we'd never do and still haven't done some of them xxx