we have only been to TTR once and we have seen swingers there..... you can see it if you look..... we have been in the lifestyle for along time..... we haven't done the "swingers" resorts yet.... we found TTR last year and we had a blast.... yes we did play there but we didn't go looking for it... it just happened..... i agree with everyone on this... leave TTR like it is.... fun relaxing and just a great place to meet some of the best ppl we have ever met.... looking forward to meeting some new friends this year also. see you in 4 days.
Well said Lynfa and that has been our impression, there again is less than 24 hours so we will see if it's changed but I doubt it!
I can't say we're "Lifestylers" because our so-called "swinging" includes about 1% of our lives. We do enjoy the option and we've always found ourselves being drawn or making that connection with others that are equally interested. We enjoy the flirting and sexiness of the resort without having the complete openess of SWINGING.
Don't get fooled by what you see. What may look like swingers are often people being sillier then they normally would be, and a lot but not all got to their room with their partners all hot and bothered at the idea of swinging. I love the way it is. I hope they don't change it.
We are not swingers and would be very disappointed if they changed TTR to a swingers resort. We wouldn't return if that happened. However, I doubt that would happen since Desire cancun is sooo close. We have been to TTR 10 times and found that there were a lot more swingers on our last trip than any of our past trips. Some people think we must be swingers b/c we have been to the resort so many times. We keep coming back for a number of reasons: it feels like our home away from home, adults only, number and variety of activities going on during the day, sexy vibes, we have met so many wonderful people and we have a lot of fun. We would hate to lose that! I also don't think it's necessary to provide a separate bar / meeting area for swingers. It's not a swingers resort and there is no need to separate people.
We agree would not go if it became a swinger resort! We've been there 7 times and love it the way it is. We have been there in June and Sept and meet such great people every year!