okie dok... well i dont want any drama but thank you for the warning! I'm not a swinger yet! lol. Just thinking about it! I just like being topless for now! hahah And yes I'm a GP girl but I'm sort of being a traitor in May when we go "hopping" Hopefully fonzo and Gamaliel can forgive us When will u be at gp? (PM me)
Just foolin around folks. Lets not get all sensitive now. J4 is the coolest and loves everybody. Just found it funny that he was being labeled a hater. I should have colored my post in blue. Its all good. We may be at the GP in July. We want to go to Temptation is late April, but the wife may not be able to swing it. (PUN intended) We are in Cozumel/Playa in October, so we shall see.
Damn... one comment and you're felling persecuted? I would think after swinging for 15 years you'd have a little thicker skin. J4 was just pointing out that TTR was not a lifestyle resort. If you'd been here for a while you'd know that there is a lot of misleading press about the resort. It has been mislabeled for years as a lifestyle resort and folks have come expecting more than they get. They then are highly disappointed and trash the resort. So when you posted, “Hey, we’re new to TTR but not to the lifestyle” it came across as you were expecting something different then TTR offered on a normal basis. I mean if you were on the web site for the Holiday Inn in Cancun would you have posted the same thing? We all know people in the lifestyle and know that they, like everyone else, go to every kind of resort. TTR is like a college frat party. People mix it up in the main party which usually is sexually charged in some way. Some hook up and head off to their rooms and then come back when they are done. Some are Swingers before they arrive and some are when they leave. We all know that those that are really into the lifestyle know no means no and don’t not pressure those that are not interested. We also know that there are those that head to TTR thinking it’s a Lifestyle resort and want to try it for the first time as a couple or look at it as a target rich environment if they are single. Those people are the ones that create the problems. Because a whole lot of are what we call Swayers, those that flirt and play in public but don’t leave the party we have problems with those that create the problems. We are constantly have to herd people away from us that won’t take no for an answer. As a result we are very quick to point out the TTR is not a lifestyle resort so those that are new to the resort know what to expect. So feel free to attend TTR, we love everybody. We don’t think you will slip into our dreams at night and brainwash us, although there are a few couples that I wish would brainwash my wife, but that’s a different story…. Just know that we also want to make sure that everyone who comes to TTR knows what to expect both from the guests and the management. From the management as in some of the activities that are normal occurrences at a lifestyle resort will get you removed from the hotel. And I noticed that J4 is also being sensitive to others posting joking about his being a “hater”. For that I don’t blame him as I’ve suffered from that misconception in the past on several boards. Once it gets started it takes years to get rid of the label. So let’s be very careful there. Look, we all have opinions and are free to express them. Just remember that if your message creates a response you were not looking for that the fault does not always belong to the receiver. The sender has as much responsibility making sure that their message was clear when sent. Now… back to TTR dreaming and fun to be had….. Jamie
'And I noticed that J4 is also being sensitive to others posting joking about his being a “hater”.' All this miscommunication and controversy and all I took away from all this is j4 is a dude? That sucks. I miss the thong on the lounge chair picture by the way I always enjoy her, er, his opinions/thoughts.
We're not reptiles. We're sensitive to J4 remarks because we have a lot money locked into this trip and J4 is standing at the front door pointing the way Desire. You're not making the matter much better. FACT: We know TTR is not a lifestyle resort, nor did we tagged it as such but remember, Swingers do visit TTR. Now please drop it. M&M
