Ls Etiquette Question . . .

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun Forum' started by B&K, Nov 16, 2019.

  1. M&MfromLA

    M&MfromLA Enthusiast Registered Member

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    As lifestylers, its ridiculously dissapointing to hear about any person or couple getting upset or making you feel bad. @Lindilou said it best.... Some people are simply assholes and that wont change. You guys did nothing wrong.
     
  2. wild1s

    wild1s Naughty 'n Nice Registered Member

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    I meet a lot of people at TTR that I enjoy a good conversation with but have no Desire to bang. Just think how quiet it would be if you only talked with people that you wanted to screw! Lol!
     
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  3. Vince & Wendy

    Vince & Wendy Welcome to Never, Never Land! Registered Member

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    Well I would say you met the odd one out.
    Even being lifestyle doesn’t mean being always good to go. Different folks have levels of interest in playing and most are just interested in having fun, meeting people and making friends like everyone else. Finding some fun playmates is just a bonus.
     
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  4. newfyfun4u

    newfyfun4u Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Lifestyle-ers life-----lol

    --Are you exhibitionist?
    --Are you voyeurism??
    --Are you same room, same bed?
    --Are you separate room?
    -- are you soft or full swap?
    -- are you DTF or FWB ??
    -- are you only unicorns or couples??

    After all that, you still have to achieve an in person chemistry too and Desire.
    It's not as quick and easy as you think, but lifestyler's know that, and that's why we're respectful.
     
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  5. Lindilou

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    Or how busy THESE people would be!
     
  6. Jccouple

    Jccouple Regular Registered Member

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    TTR is as much a LS resort as your local grocery store, restaurant or church, just at TTR everyone is topless! Don't sweat it, you spent good money to find like minded people also, they just weren't it!
     
  7. Stacia_and_John

    Stacia_and_John T&A Tour Guide Registered Member

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    Karen nailed it, pun intended.

    Stacia & I don't think we're LS, though we've been partying with and in a LS facility. It's a weird thing. In my own mind, you "are in the lifestyle" even if all you enjoy is the vibe of partying witht he full-on (I don't know how to define that any better) LS folks. We've been going to TTR since 2007, and we've seen and done A LOT of fun & sexy stuff while there, but we've never done anything LS/Swappy (swappy? Swapping? Swappest, or swappist? I dunno).

    But, we sort of immerse ourselves in the LS from time to time with other folks doing whateverit is that they want to do, which doesn't effect us so it's not going to bother us.

    That being said... a couple actually getting noticeable angry, even a bit upset, just because they ask and you indicated, verbally or otherwise a "no,"... is pretty low class and not at all common.
     
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