The last time we were at an adults-only resort in Mexico (the Golden Parnassus), my wife and I were hanging out with three or four other couples and when all the other gals doffed their tops, my wife figured "c'est la vie" and her's came off, too. I think it's one of those "safety in numbers" sort of things...as long as others were doing it, she didn't feel out of place.:flash:
So one time after being to TTR many times, I went to the local pool. I was sunny on my stomach. I had my top untied right under me. The pool manager came by and said,"This is a family pool please tie your top" What? really?