We are absolutely thrilled! We met the most amazing group of people during our first Desire experience in Los Cabos in 2008 before it changed to Temptation. We still travel with them, and consider them some of our best friends. Our entire group is excited about the change back to Desire and we are certain we'll be visiting there with some of them as soon as possible after the switch! And as with any vacation, the party/fun vibe is only as good as the people there.
We liked the TTR concept a bunch and had a superb time there a year ago with great people. This changeover will definitely make us reconsider our trip in Sept, 2012. We inadvertently had our last day there during a Desire takeover last time and, while the people were cool, it was a little tiring explaining over and over again that we were not in the lifestyle. The overall nudity was not a problem for us, we eventually joined in....Ladies hitting on the wife and a certain guy dangling his stuff 3 inches from the wife in the upstairs tub was though...Just sayin'...We will sure talk it over...
My wife and I are not in the lifestyle at all but have been to the Desire Weeks in Cabo and been to Desire Cancun many times. To be honest, we have had more forward approaches about the lifestyle when we were visiting during the Temptation format than the Desire format. If the Desire concept interests you, I think what you experienced previously is not the "norm".
Thank you CLG...And we agree. we had such approaches during the TTR portion of our trip also. We admit we are mystified a little at how some struggle to interpret body language and clues...Oh well. If this is our biggest problem in life....
Good! Increases the number of choices (Hedo II, Desire I, Desire II). We have enjoyed them all. The Cabo price two weeks ago was unbeatable, and a great vacation (but semi clothed and way laid back -- compared to Hedo and Desire). We are already looking at future trip options. Great news. PNK
We agree. We've not seen over the top propositioning at Desire Cabo but we have at TTR. We were at TTR Cancun last February and we were flat exhausted. The frat party atmosphere had us done in about half way into the trip. The one day we actually both managed to fall asleep on the beach on a couple of lounge chairs a couple came over and laid completely on top of us! They surmised we were 'swgrs,' and figured it acceptable to sprawl out on us. We were both jolted awake and majorly p**sed off. :sauer005: They were pushy all week and figured they'd go for broke.
code Maybe it's time for some sort of coded braclets or something similar to the coded bracelets I've read about on the TTR Cancun site? We are not lifestylers, do NOT judge those that are, LOVE to be naked and LOVE the classy, sexual vibe at Desire. We've had many conversations and made friends with Lifestylers and those not into it at several clothing optional resorts. There has never been an issue, "NO means NO".:aktion033: May can't come soon enough!
We are in the lifestyle but very disappointed that TTR in Cabo is going to be Desire. I personally do not want to see a bunch of naked men walking around for a week. We will be going to Temptations Cancun from now on. We were planning on going to Cabo in February but now afraid that the service will not be as good as they are preparing for Desire.
We are very excited about this change and much more likely to go to Cabo now, since it is a non-stop flight from Seattle and Cancun forces us to connect and costs nearly twice as much to fly there. The other thing I like is that TTR Cabo had more jacuzzi rooms/suites than Desire Mayan Riviera. When I tried to book at Desire, their jacuzzi rooms were booked two years out!! It also is a lot more expensive to stay at Desire Mayan Riviera than TTR Cancun/Los Cabos. I am just hoping that they don't raise their room rate too much when it switches in May, especially if all they change is the nudity restriction! Whenever we have gone to lifestyle parties or clubs, we have never had a problem with unwanted pestering or obnoxious/unwanted flirting, and no always means no (and very respectfully so). I can't believe what I read about TTR Cancun and the couple that was sleeping on the beach lounge chairs who got "jumped" so to speak! That is unthinkable based on any experience I have had over years of parties/events with hundreds of "swingers" - I am really thinking that couple must have been exploring their wild side for the first time, I can't imagine any other regular "lifestyler" violating personal space so egregiously! Since TTR is not an official lifestyle club, they can't require the orientation that other "first-timers" must attend at real lifestyle clubs, and that is where the rules of conduct are really laid out <lol, I guess pun intended!> I really prefer a couples environment anyway, as my husband and I do not mingle separately anywhere we go and would rather hang out with another couple we like than singles. My husband didn't like it when single guys would get obnoxious at Patty O's with me, but it wasn't as bad as other stories we have heard about Cancun when we were there. My birthday is May 3 and we just may plan a trip to Cabo now - woo hoo!!
Well, we are less than thrilled. We really liked the Temptations concept and cabo was cheap and easy to get to. So here is a question, I guess a better time would have been when it was full Desire before during a normal week, is it weird/would you be out of place being a guy there and wearing boardshorts with the mrs topless?
