Based on what your posts are I think you will love TTR. This is our 6th trip and I don't think anybody feels out of place no matter what they have on. The resort motto is "Nobody knows you and nobody gives a s*#t!' literally! People are so fun and respectful and the staff are out of this world. We have been genuinely recognized by several staff members the past few trips. The food is good. Italian and Asian a la cartes are awesome. Have never tried the seafood but the tex-mex is good as well. The buffet is great in the morning and lunch, supper the last time we found it was a little hit or miss. There is a thread here about the beach and yes you can go topless on the beach as well.