Spring Break For Adults "Excellant Hotel Spring Break For Adults" This resort was great .You should have an open mind to have a lot of fun.We have been to many all inclusive resorts but this one ranks well up their. The food was great,lots of choices.The entertainment staff was fantastic,,they really go out of there way to keep everyone active.All the staff there were absolutely fantastic.If you want to join up for the games be prepared to get SEXY.There was never any pressure to join in the games ,,,we just laughed a lot. We heard some good reports before we went and some reports saying about swinging.We are not but we can say we never seen anything like that, but like any club after hours I am sure you could find it. I can sum the hotel and staff up by saying The staff was awesome,the food was really good and I am a picky eater(Breakfast was served until Noon) ,the rooms were clean and the beach was clean and beautiful.What more would you ask for on a vacation. And yes we will be back to this resort within 3-4 months
We just got back yesterday from our fourth trip, and I can't even count how many people I talked to at the resort who said they, also, come from conservative backgrounds and were scared of what Temptation would be like--but all were having a great time and enjoying letting loose. From what you say about your wife, I think you'll be fine. Every woman at the resort has had to decide what level of revealing she's comfortable with, so there's kind of a "sisterhood." We get it. There were women in conservative one pieces, and there were women topless with thong bottoms--and not one person criticized another's choice. I agree you should do some shopping together so she can point out to you what works for her and what doesn't. But I love the idea of you surprising her with a few extra things, too--I think after a few days she'll surprise herself with what she feels confident in.
I think you've received some great advise. Hopefully, it's what you were looking for. I agree that you should be careful to encourage her, but not push. Hopefully, the rest will happen on it's own. The more tuned into her you are during your stay, the better it will go. The resort can be anything you want it to be. The quiet pool is relaxing, the beach is beautiful, and the Sexy Pool is more crazy. You can sit back and watch or get involved in the silly/sexy games. The night life is the same....it's up to you how tame or crazy it will be. I typically recommend the Boobs Cruise to all who go to TTR, but given your description it MAY be too much for her this trip. It's so hard to say because sometimes it's tame and sometimes it's wild. It's a gamble. LOL. My first trip, I picked what I THOUGHT were sexy clothes for themed nights and small bottoms for the pool. LMAO! I felt very conservative compared to others. We are about to make our 3rd trip in 4 years and each time my clothes get smaller and smaller. LOL. And about her scars.....she is far from alone. Many of us have scars. I myself, am a breast cancer survivor. I've had a double mastectomy and I still go topless at the Sexy Pool! Don't forget the TTR motto....Nobody Knows You and Nobody Gives a Shit!! I hope you both have a great time and don't forget to report back after your trip and let us know how it went. Ginger
I would add if she is really concerned about her scars there is a lady at the resort that does fine temp body tattoos. My Jen usually gets one on her belly to hide her mommy scar. Either way nobody judges, it's all good when you are running around half naked.
We just back from TTR a few weeks ago...and have already booked again for October 3 - 10!! We weren't sure what to expect either. The preceding comments are absolutely straight on - no one cares what your body type is or what you look like. Everyone is there to have fun and you will meet a great group of people, I promise you that. Pam was a bit unsure about being topless...until the Boobs Cruise. Her bikini top was hoisted up the flag pole then she was the first one nude on the boat as Chino and I wrote our names on her pussy!! Pick an outfit or two your wife would never wear in public at home - and you will likely find that it is the norm during an evening at TTR. Have fun, drink, meet people and participate in the theme nights...that's what TTR is all about and you will NOT regret it.
I honestly think any pressure comes from either your spouse or yourself... the other people there for the most part are very welcoming.. And have to agree.. shop together, you may buy her outfits but if she isn't comfortable she won't want to wear them, you want her.. see where I'm going with this... the most part of pressure comes from each other.. Go with an open mind and take it slow... some women are comfortable with losing the top in the first 10 min.. others a day or so... each to their own. Live and let live this trip is really about you two go and enjoy... I'm sure you'll be back..
Cknewbies and Herecomestrouble, I saw a quote in the Oprah magazine this morning that sums up the scar issue nicely: "Scars are a sign that you're stronger than the thing that tried to hurt you."
As far as clothing I agree with everyone on here, pick it out together. Our first trip I didn't know what to expect, it was our second time to Cancun with the first being a family resort. At TTR I was overly dressed, by the end of our trip I had taken my top off a few times. We are getting ready to go for our 2nd trip on Monday and my husband helped me pick out all my outfits. He was so encouraging as far as how I looked that I wasn't afraid to be a little daring with my choices. I have some sexy covering swimsuits packed but I also have some thongs packed. Whatever I feel each morning is what I'll go which and I know he will be supportive of whatever I choose. Don't push her past her comfort zone but definitely encourage her and comment on how sexy she'll look!! 5 days till we are there and I can't wait!!!
According to the internet Personal Data Assistant and Planetary Data Systems. So she is ok with PDA devices to help her keep track of all the hotties at TTR but she doesn't care for how NASA is tracking data on the planets. Can you tell I start the holiday weekend in 3 hours? Public display of affection or sex
