I'm torn between wearing boxers and boxer briefs. I absolutely HATE wearing boxers, so in real life I always wear boxer-briefs. But I'm not overly comfortable wearing boxer-briefs without pants covering them. At least not in public. So when lingerie Night arrives this year, I'll let Vodka make the decision for me.
Last year I wore a white mankini which wasnt the most comfortable thing in the world. The year before Chinos got me to wear a thong that had a singing dancing beaver onn the front so as you see i have no shame lol
As a guy, my issue with wearing skimpy/revealing clothing isn't really a self-confidence thing. It's more an issue of societal conditioning. Where I'm from, if you wear a tight t-shirt to the bar (or a muscle-shirt, etc.), you're instantly pegged as a douche-bag. If I strolled into a bar wearing boxer-briefs, I'd get my ass handed to me by every guy in the place. Because in the real world, nobody likes a show-off. At TTR, those conventional taboos get thrown in the trash-can. People aren't standing around with their hands in their pockets, trying to look tough or act cool. They're there to have fun. Let loose. And do what they don't normally do. I understand that all on an intellectual level. But I've been conditioned for so long, that I still worry about looking like a douche-bag. So again, that's where Vodka joins the discussion.
Yup... I was SO embarassed about lingerie night in September... The wife bought me teenange mutant ninja turtle boxer briefs & pasties with tassels on them... By the time came to actually dress for it, i was like ehhh screw it... nobody knows me... By the time we were in Nice Shoes, I was loving it.. And so was everybody else... People loved playing with my tassels.. My only regret is that I don't have any pictures from that night. Plenty of people took them of me, but I was so hammered I don't remember, and I can't find anybody that actually has them...
Completely understand where you are coming from. My real job that pays the bills and my vacations is very conservative and living in a very very small town everyone lives in glass houses. What I have found though, the more times you go to TTR, the less you wear, the more daring you become, the more fun you have. So bring the most daring outfits you have, have some Vodka and Tequila and live it up! Because once you realize how much fun you are having and you are preparing to book your next trip to TTR you will want to be that much more daring! and say "WTH.. No one knows me and no one gives a shit!" Its your vacation, make what you want out of it!!!
Can I get by on lingerie night with a small square cut swimsuit? Wife says NO, has to be lingerie. This square cut is plenty small & doubt I'll muster up the courage to wear it in broad daylight! I'll pack a new pair of ranger panties (pt shorts) just to be safe.
im sorry its the only place i didnt get pictures of,and as for pictures all the cds are ready ill bring them with me.