In our "personal" opinion, the "casino" part of the lingerie Night isn't the thing to participate in, it's the party that takes place out at Patyo's starting about the same time that the Casino games are in mid-swing. Our experience, mind, is that there aren't that many actual tables to play anything, and they did away with the "You get more chips the more skin you show" thing that used to make things sexily-interesting. Most of the fun really IS out at Patyo's checking people out, cheering for hot people you know or just want to know, getting to watch your lady strut her stuff, and maybe you too. It's like that. Participation is, as with a lot of TTR things, key. Lots of people wearing lingerie, party is big time happening! Not so many, and it can end up lame. It's why the ladies need to connect BEFORE the night of, to commit to one another to dress in the next-to-nothings and if necessary, meet in someone's room or at the Quiet Pool bar (our usual meet-up spot) and then go hit the party at Patyo's.
Prior to Temptation the first time, my wife prepared by buying a few different lingerie outfits ranging from medium risque to completely risqué (to the point she didn't know if she would even wear it in public). On lingerie night, we were coming back from dinner and saw a few girls heading over to PatyOs dressed for the night. Hellos were passed back and forth, hot looks were given, and we said see you in a few. We get back to the room, and we looked at each other. Both pretty much said "Yea I don’t think what you brought is appropriate". She looks at me basically said "Yea I know right, they are all too much clothing. I think I will be better off in these little lacy panties, hot bra, and tall shoes". I agreed!
