I have to admit that when we were first looking for a resort in Cancun that we almost didn't book Temptations due to everything that I read regarding the swingers / lifestylers at the resort. My wife and I are very "vanilla" and that whole concept was completely foreign to us. We were concerned about being pressured or ostracized for not being interested in partaking. Well after having spent 6 nights there and getting to know quite a few lifestyle couples, I can say that our fears were 100% unfounded. In fact it was the complete opposite of what I was expecting. The lifestyle couples were not only fun to hang out with, but were the friendliest people we have met, and also the most protective. Once they knew we were not in the lifestyle there was no pressure applied additionally they would stop others (bachelor parties) from giving unwanted attention. That being said, if you are considering booking Temptations but are hesitant due to it being a "swingers resort", don't worry. You will have the time of your life. And get to know a few people in the lifestyle. They may be some of the nicest people you will ever meet.