We haven't had any problems. We go there knowing the Mrs. is going to be looked at, approached, commented to or about... If I was single and saw her, can't say I wouldn't try to approach her to see if there is interest on her part or if I could flirt. In addition, it is much more entertaining to see some of the guys crash and burn with their tactics.
Great post. Creepy dudes creep single dudes out too... Respectful couples, singles alike make everyones time better!!
Excellent Post! As a experienced couple in the sls we've only ran into a couple douchebags. As a retired police officer I have a delicate way of dealing with obnoxious folks Though Nov 21 will be our first trip to TTR my guess is at a place like that rude behavior more than likely will come from a single not in the sls or like previous comments from a group of young Dicks.
Well said everyone..... Sounds like everyone agrees that there is a big difference between the single guy and single douche!! I'm a single guy (going to be there next week...YES!!) and very respectful.... I could never imagine coming on to a married or "taken" woman while she is on vacation together....some guys (douches) have lot of nerve.
well said the only issue we ever witnessed was with "Stranger Danger" we can explain in June....There is a ahole in every group just watch yours when he is around...
Great post, we also picked TTR because it is single friendly. Tara enjoys being stared at, hit on, flirted with etc... Although she is so sexy and hot she doesn't think so. This is a huge confidence booster for her. We enjoy playing with single males and single females. It is also more difficult to find 4 people that are all attracted to each other then it is to find 2. We have been in the lifestyle for 10+ years and in the begining when you are living out your fantasies one partner may take one for the team. Now that we have lived out most of our fantasies neither of us are taking one for the team. Neither one of us have any issue dealing with the douchebags either. Someone touches Tara if she doesn't want to be and they will know it. She has a mean jab...lol
Nicely done Soop. At the Hedos, they are quickly spotted if misbehaving and word spreads like wildfire around the resort. "Wally's" and "Vinnies" are quickly dealt with and they usually end up around the other pools and never going back to the nude side, hence the remainder of their vacation is not as anticipated. Single's are welcome of course, just be cool.
We're with Soop. If we could eliminate the douchebags, TTR would be perfect. But wait. If we could eliminate the douchebags, the entire world might be.... well, you get the idea. In our 5 previous trips to BBG/TTR, we have actually encountered only two (2) REAL douchebags, not your typical single (or married I guess) guy who has way too much to drink and crosses a line he can no longer see. Most of the time, when sober, those guys are mortified that they acted the fool. Please don't be a douchebag, fellas. As the OP at the top says, if you aren't a douchebag, you can find plenty of people willing to talk, and then maybe flirt, and if you and they are amenable, perhaps playtime would follow. But, that decision is NOT up to you.
Just a few things that crossed my mind while reading: 1. It has to all come down to respect and communication. People don't always realize that what they are doing is obnoxious, offensive or making others uncomfortable (even if they maybe should). It is just as important to learn to express when you are bothered or uncomfortable as it is to make an effort to treat others well. 2. Ladies, if you're walking around in next to nothing, you simply cannot complain about being hit on (if done in all earnestness), drooled over or stared at. As someone who most often would prefer to bat for the proverbial "other team", these things are generally meant in a very positive way, and should be taken as such. Should you be groped against your will and the like? certainly not. Do you have a right to ask people to leave you be? Of course. But if you don't realize the power behind the sexy outfit you are wearing and don't feel prepared to deal with the treatment if gets you, then perhaps you should rethink it somewhat? 3. Gentlemen, I appreciate you are all big and strong and want to protect us, but sometimes we ladies need to learn to stand up for ourselves. By all means, ensure the safety of the one you love, but also understand that if she is putting it out there in public, there are going to be people that will respond to it just as you yourself do/would. 4. Unfortunately there is no "douche-o-meter", so we all have to just develop our own. Being over a certain age, or single or married or female or male or gay or straight or anything else does not a respectful and positive individual make. All sorts of people have the potential to ruin a good time for others -that's just a risk you have to take if you are leaving the confines of your home, ESPECIALLY if there is drinking and etc. involved. 5. I have to finally end by agreeing with the original post that I would be sad if there were couples only at this resort. We aren't lifestylers per se, but we do have an extremely free/open/flexible relationship in many senses, and I would hate to have anything diminish the sexual charge or new partner potential while on vacation. Sorry for being so long winded - bad combination of a cold day off and needing to find a way to procrastinate on cleaning the apartment :icon_mrgreen:
