There is a big difference between people getting together for a good time and groups of obnoxious drunk guys expecting everyone's wives to go home with them. As said ealier, if you are a douche, you are not welcome.
I added you guys to the FB discussion group. There isn't much discussion going on but we have the dates narrowed down.
it dosent matter what resort you go to there are always "Douch bags" we used to go to Hedo alot and though that resort is about as close to a "Swingers resort" as you can find, there is the same mix of people. the swingers, the swayers, the vouyers, the flirters and the few couples that go "holy shit" :blueshock: and stick to themselves. and you still have the creepers that go and expect every woman to want to have sex with them married or not. :brick: ignore them and they will go away, if they dont someone usually makes them :aktion054:
Wow...I wish every resort would adopt this policy! I wonder if they could develop some kind of online "You might be a douchebag if..." quiz you have to take before booking, and if you get too many questions wrong, they automatically bump you next door to the Ocean Spa!
Believe me you guys will be fine!!!! if your wife is reserved she will keep her distance from a group of obnoxious guys....Its just like anything else in life...if you go looking for trouble you can find it!!!! so if you see 70 single guys in the pool...drunk and partying I would advise you or your wife to not let her go stand in the middle of them...Im sure she would get offended!!!! But if she wants to feel like a milf that would be the right spot to get noticed!!!! look we are avid repeaters and we love the place!!!! TTR has a place for everyone no matter what they are looking for!!!!! they have a beach that is usually laid back....they have a quiet pool if you dont want to deal with all the single....music....games....and partying...and then the sexy pool....singles...couple....games...music...mingling...flirting....drinking...the best adult spring break ive ever seen!!!!! you can hang out about anywhere in the pool away from the pool bar you would like or hang at your lounge chair and watch all this if you enjoy without getting involved!!!! You can go to your local favorite bar and get offended....so Im sure on occasion it will happen here too!!!! If you can go out on the town with your wife at home and not have problems....you can come here and do the same!!!!! To ask to run off all the single obnoxious guys at TTR would be like asking to run them all out of your home town!!!! there is no place in the world that is perfect....but in my opinion..TTR is the closest place to perfection my wife and I have ever found!!!!!..you will find that the most and the biggest problems youll see at TTR is when the wife enjoys the partying and the attention a little more than the husband expected them too!!!! and even those fights are fun to watch sometimes......a jealous husband trying to talk common sence to a drunk wife thats having a blast (or vise versa)!!!! can be comical....
First of all thanks for your insight. I guess the thread got me was (Jeff & Beth our last visit in March 2011 there seemed to be many larger groups of guys. These guys apparently thought they had a chance to score with my wife by opening the "conversation" with lewd remarks, followed by whispering between the group, followed by following her around the bar for a few hours.) Believe me I want my wife and I to experience and enjoy TTR to the fullest. I'm not the jealous type and I'm ok with her getting hit on. I know she would be flattered. I also had just read that the "lingerie Night" wasn't policed since Chinos was gone. I just have a problem with disrespectful people. Up until I read those negatives everything I had read for the most part was positive. We have met some very cool people on this website and are looking forward to a great time at TTR. Mike
We were there in March this year nad have to agree with Jeff&Beth about large groups, we also experienced them and thought twice about coming again. However Tiogamike, the nice people stick together and look after each other and I am certain you will have a great time. We have met some great single guys out there and some real characters that have helped make our holiday. Large groups of predators are not welcome in any situation I would say!
We tried Cabo last year with a group of 18. It is a very nice resort and a bit more relaxed. We are going back to Cancun this year, but not because of anything wrong with Cabo (I just want my 2 romantic days in Isla!) I do have one suggestion for Cabo (we went week 8 - February), bring a sweater for the evenings. The nightly activities are mostly outside and it gets chilly there at night. Have fun!
Wow what a great thread, love the post OHcpl. Great comments, it appears most adding to this thread feel the same. And Racer1510 so true so true, lots of people watching to do and so many mini soaps on the go... LOL Can't wait to get back there..
