I wish a single girl would write a trip report from her perspective. Haven't seen many (any?) single female trip reports. Might be an interesting read Also OP please return to the site post trip and let us know how it goes! Hopefully it exceeds expectations and is a blast. Clearly it is worth giving it a go so hopefully you will do so.
I went last year post divorce. Wasn't nervous at all. I had a great time at the party pool during the day and found more fun at night. There were quite a few singles guys when I went. I had a great time and didn't want to leave. Eating breakfast alone kinda sucked but after the first day I had met so many great people that I had a breakfast partner/partners every morning after. I did find trouble but it was the best trouble any redhead could find.
But if not TTR where else to go in Mexico for single girls and guys? I think all of the resorts are mostly couples, at least TTR is not dead after 10 pm.