Before Temptations: I felt fat, I am a mom with stretch marks. I have love handles. I breast fed and it shows. I wasn't sure about taking my top off. I usually wear tankini tops and bottoms that cover everything. Prepping for Temptations: I convinced myself that there would be girls fatter than me and skinnier, there would be girls with nicer breasts and maybe not as nice as mine. I decided that I would buy skimpy bottoms and a smaller top, just in case. During: the saying" nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit" was so true! We did the Boobs Cruise on day one which helped. I screwed up enough courage to wear the skimpy bottoms and lose the top right away. Never bothered with a top the rest of the trip. After Temptations: my self confidence has sky rocketed! My husband has noticed and loves it and can't keep his hands off me. For the first time since I can remember I have a positive body image of myself. I walk taller, I go shopping and buy sexier clothes that fit me properly instead of buying the next size up to hide my perceived flaws. I started trying to watch what I eat and caring about working out. In short, going to temptations has really changed our lives.
Topless I actually have a hard time putting a top back on. Nobody wants to see my boobs. I am 50 years old and breastfed 5 years straight. My girls are tied up everyday and I can let them loose at Temptations. It feels so good to be free, have the wind, water, and sunshine on them. My husband can't keep his hands off them. In my opinion, God gives you boobs to breastfeed, then for pleasure. They are natural and nothing to be ashamed of. Let loose, enjoy, put them back in hiding when you get home.
I vote you keep your top on...unless it's a Rider's jersey...lol I think we're (Partydollgirl and me) are there the same time in April as you...see you there!
Ok Bruce, just for that I am going to do my best to get you really drunk and unwittingly get you a Riders tattoo!
It really is a world apart from back home. It seems perfectly natural there but there's no pressure either way from anyone. Just look forward to your trip and having fun with lots of great people. You can decide when you get there what you want to do and are comfortable with. It's competely up to you.
