Just back (kinda long maybe boring)

And I will keep on posting pictures of cute kittens until we all get along! I mean look at that cat, it doesn't want us to cry!

 

ok, thats friggen funny!

 

I have to agree, very cute cat !! LOL

 

OMG Keith.. that is so cute.. OK.. I give... lol

 

Same thing for my wife in Po Dunk MI. There are certain perils involved with being married to a Hottie.
I'm sticken with the Hottie an liken my odds.

I have never seen any threatening behavior at TTR and me thinks some people need to lighten up, and grow thicker skin.

 

Geeze cant we all just get along! OK now for our 2 cents, we have been to both
Hedo 2 and 3 several times and never once had a problem with a single guy that we
could not handle ourselves or I should say my wife handled..LOL..Maybe thats because we are from New Yawk and dont take no disrespect.. Wow cant believe I just wrote that! Anyway we have been to Desire 2 times and had more problems with the male half of a few couples who thought it was ok to hit on my wife and would tell her that their G/F or wife doesnt have a problem with them straying...Whats up with that?? and why hasnt that happened to me??? So we are still looking foward to meeting everyone in April, married, single or other....

 

I believe I am the only one who was totally getting Cpl4fun's point. We have been three times and going back next week. I do not want to ever have to deal with security or Mexican police. We should not have to..we should feel safe. We are on vacation. We have met single guys each time but they were traveling alone, not in groups. They were nice and I felt comfortable. Please do not suggest that we should go to Desire if we want to feel safe. That is a totally different experience and one that does not interest us.

I get hit on in good ole Iowa but grabbing ass? Maybe people are too polite here.

Been to Vegas 13 times and no one has slipped me a Rophenol. I was groped there, though.

 

my visits as a single girl to bluebay/Temptation are well into double figures and I have always felt entirely safe,I have met a lot of great people over the years singles,couples and also groups of single men.. of course there is always the odd one I wouldnt want to meet again lol...I have to say I have had more unwanted attention/groping from drunken married guys than singles,all in all the singles have been more respectful they tend to ask before touching lol...

 

I think the point is is that you need to be aware of your surroundings wherever you are. Things happen, whether it is single guys, girls, husbands, wives, cats or dogs. It doesn't matter, there can be a bad apple anywhere. Just need to be aware of those things and nip it in the bud before it gets out of hand. Heck one of the worst experiences we had was with a couple that we had considered good friends. One evening the husband decided he could attempt to have his way with my wife, physically forcing himself on her. This happened when I had stepped into another room to talk to someone else for a few minutes. We took care of the situation and now haven't seen that couple in several years. And this in a town of less than 5000. My point is it can happen to anyone at anytime. You cannot go through life in fear constantly. We are going to Temptations again, we are going to have a great time, and I will be keeping a watchful eye on my wife. And with a quarter of a percent of luck, we are not going to have any issues, and we will be returning again.

 

Agreed. The crowd I go down there with has some real standouts, girls that turn every head in the room. What the girls do not know is that a male member of the group will watch them take every step to and from the bathroom etc.
We are fortunate in that it is pretty obvious to anyone looking that a single man isn't something that would add to our enjoyment so they seek targets percieved to be easier. We still get what I would call "drive by harrassement" but it is quelled pretty easily.
It is a shame that the behavior of a few individuals can impact peoples perception of a whole resort. Hell, there are people on this board right now who describe themselves as "respectful" that I have had to tell to get their camera out of my wifes ass multiple times.