@boogalooboy, someone not sharing your opinion is not them being a troll. Your take on what you think I meant is actually nearly exactly opposite of my expectations. We weren't looking for all out sex party; we were looking for time together and freedom of nudity. I also didn't say I didn't speak to anyone at all. I met several very nice couples but it does require a lot of work to find the ccc people amongst the sea of guests. All I suggested was the group organize a way to facilitate meeting. I am perfectly capable of meeting people, but your suggestion to go meet people on my own renders this forum obsolete until after the first visit. Why not expand its usefulness? That's all I suggested. My OPINION and PERCEPTION as a newcomer is that TTR is more of a party spot with couples looking to spice things up with another couple or by adding a single. That's what we saw going on and what one of the TTR guests I met actually said to me. We found a more relaxing atmosphere with less pressure at Desire, as a couples only resort; that's all. I don't know why that opinion angers you so, but keep going to the TTR party. My perception might help someone like me who is looking for where to go. Unless you own TTR, there is no reason to be so pissed off and insult me because I didn't enjoy the experience as much as you obviously do. TTR is a fun place for what it is; I merely made some suggestions to improve it, in my opinion. It's sad that so many of you are so unaccepting of alternate opinions.