One of the 1st signs of maturity is being able to reach out an give of oneself, to another. I think many guys have woman "issues" due to the fact that they don't ask themselves what the girl would like and they concern themselves too much with what their male friends will think. It's hard to fall in love with a guy who is more concerned with what his buddies think than how I feel. I couldn't attach myself emotionally to a guy like that. He would never be more than a social buddy or.....if he was good in bed, a bootie buddy. Michelle
