That's exactly what happened to me! I came home a totally different person because of it. Just go and enjoy yourself and don't worry about what anyone else is thinking... because you're probably the only one thinking it.
for the love of pete,.... forget your "extra curves"( hell, who of us doesnt have extra ?) get there, belly up to the sexy pool bar, drive a few shots of tequilla into yourself, loose your inhibitons, and your top, and have the time of your life. and, if your ok with it , and im around, let me do body shots offa ya!
You know what is so awsome about this thread.. its because everything that everyone is saying is true... I think thats why we all love this place so much, be who you are do pretty much as you please and nobody will judge you, well except maybe yourself... and you'll be saying holy shit did I do that... and when you go home and get back into the real world ... you'll be looking forward to the next and the next trip... A place where you can be all that you can be..
Omg! I literally laughed out loud when I read the part about body shots! Then I had to go tell my hubby about it. He said to write that he has noticed that ever since I found this forum and started posting he has noticed my confidence level getting higher. There has been a few times in the last couple of weeks I have actually walked around the house naked! :blueshock: And he loves it ! LOL I said it's just because I am tanning :icon_mrgreen:
We went last September for the first time and I had alot of the same feelings that you are having however after day one nobody cared especially me and no body gave a shit...especially me :}}}} .....there are all sorts of body shapes and all sorts of ages. I'd say that about 98% of the people there did not have what would be considered a "perfect" body. Just go, drink, take your top off and enjoy!
Tanyer, I'm so happy you're feeling better about your trip and that you're strutting your stuff for your hubby! So now I'd like to throw down a little challenge for you: Heels! I dare you to treat yourself to a "scandalous" pair of shoes and see how it feels to strut around in something totally out of character. If your budget allows, go for something from this site! Glitter Heels (I'm suggesting this because it was my first baby step--I feel kinda ridiculous in frou-frou lingerie, but high heels flatter anyone!):icon_biggrin:
This might sound strange but I am more conscious about my body than Stef due to the numerous scars I have on my arm and chest, but when we were in Temptation in 2010 no one looked or bothered about my scars. It is exactly like a few of you have already said its more about personality and attitude than what people look like. I would rather speak to people who are fun and like a laugh than people who are so in love with themselves that they are stuck up there own arse. Stef was a bit nervous at first about being topless but by the end of the holiday she had them out at every opportunity and even at the bar one night when a few girls were having a good lick and suck. Just be yourself and you will have a great time.
