We're here at TTR right now and agree 100 percent with what you say. We are Brits living in the USA and I do think that the toplessness is a titilation for the Americans but not Europeans as most Americans have not experienced toplessness before. We also find it very cliquey here as most people are multiple times visitors and they tend to stay in their own groups. Don't get me wrong, they are all polite, non-judgmental and friendly, it's just difficult to fit in a group of people that know each other so well. We will probably try Desire next year as it seems more real and less contrived than TTR from what I have read. We will come back to TTR at some point in the future, but not as a single couple. Better to have your own clique from the start.