I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I hope you can find peace soon. Rob, that is the best quote ever I am going to use that for the rest of my life, thank you. Eddy
Terry, I am so sorry hon.......you and your family will be in my thoughts!! take care, and hang in there..
Thanks Rob, not sure how to heal except I know time will help, but when you spent half a century with some one in you life that you love it is very hard to heal the hurt of losing them. Wish I could have taken him to Cancun, he would have loved it! Terry
terry, Very sorry to here about your brother. If we ever meet up down there lunch is on me and the talk is of family! We will be there in feb. Ken
I see that this thread has been going for sometime. I just wanted to say that I can empathize with a lot of the comments here. I think when we lose someone important to us that the need to "escape" becomes quite prominent. It can be healthy and therapeutic...but it can also turn to despair if you are not careful. I recently lost two very close friends within months of each other. SO I am looking to get away for a while to clear my head. The Tempations was one place we had all thought of going together, so I think they will be with me in spirit.
time certainly helps.....................and gratititude helps even more like i said we get to pick the course we will take when it comes to our healing - for me ive found every time i have a moment to be bitter or mad or regretful - over the years ive had tons of them i assure you i simply flip it upside down and say to myself "i never did anything to deserve the 8 years i got with him - thank you god for those 8 wonderful years - i am very grateful i got those " when i do that my soul is at peace - immediately rob
