I Need Opinions, Upset Bf

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by Chaox, Mar 26, 2024.

  1. mexico24

    mexico24 Guru Registered Member

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    Does she refer to herself as a unicorn now?
     
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    So wrong (this early) but also oh so right!!! $20 says the definition being “looked up” on Google is not accurate?
     
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    You should jump at the chance to go there with her. But she should find some one who cares more about her happiness.
     
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    You guys are being too hard on him. When you are young it hits different.
     
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    Sounds like she loves the place, go enjoy yourselves together
     
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    Yeah. Agree, probably all of us (pre internet) have been there before. But we also didn’t have a forum to post to for “opinions” like this (well, there was Penthouse Forum ;) ). Unless we wanted to write to Dear Abby? Wondering if some “hard truths” in my 20’s would have been just what I needed?
     
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    While I can see your point, which is why I shared our experience, I disagree. Neither of these young adults should believe that this is somehow a misguided form of love. At the very least it is incredibly immature ... Midline it is emotional abuse... And leads to questions noted by others about what else sets him off. This gal should run. Asap.
     
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    I agree it is immature but I probably wouldn't have liked the atmosphere when I was 25 with my wife either. Now we are near 40 with kids and we enjoy it. I don't think their relationship is doomed because what goes on at Temptations is tough to handle for a 25 year old.
     
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    How is it tough for a 25 yr old when the younger generation knows more than we who in our 40 50 stop it he or she just feel like a lot happens at Temptation and he or she just wanna make sure nothing happen lol I tell my wife go right ahead she can go to the moon and back I’m going to still enjoy life
     
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    Most 25 year olds have very limited life experience. On top of that, at that age, jealousy and insecurity are very real. I remember when I was 25, would have reacted the same way.

    He has some very valid points. It is hard to believe she didn't know, it's not like Temptations keeps the atmosphere a secret. Plus, when she got there, the first thing she should have done is call her bf and tell him what the situation was...and ask if he was ok with her going to the parties. If he said no, it's not ok with him, then she's got a decision to make. Have fun with her GF or stay true to her BF and avoid the nightly parties. Trust goes both ways and it sounds like she is not particularly trustworthy.
     
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