Be confident but not arrogant, cheeky but not a d!ck Best place to meet girls, undoubtedly is at the hotel ... pre-drinks at the bar(s) before you hit the club(s) ... figure out where the hot girls are going and worm your way in ; )
So I wanted to post a review of my AWESOME time in cancun on my 2nd trip there, hope other fellas that had the same question as me can benefit from my experience. In my particular situation it made a huge difference to have a buddy coming with me at these warehouse clubs (not like my first trip that i came by myself) , 2nd the hotel oasis organized their trips and they brought a huge group of people from our hotel so definitely having an entire level only for us helped, in my case i went to chitchat to all the girls from our hotel so no need for icebreakers. 3rd (and probably lots will disagree with me) since spring break was over the clubs were not packed like my first time so this time i was actually able to move around freely and approach other tables. Combine these 3 facts with a non-stop ingestion of booze and I ended up having the best trip of my life hehe. so I was able to meet and make out with chicks at the city, mandala beach, and sr frogs. This is basically the sequence of my approach, got drunk at the vip table, became fearless about chatting with girls, approached and opened with lots of energy with something simple like "it seems there is a good party at this table, what hotel u girls coming from", kept talking and asked questions to the ladies so we could interact more, start teasing them, start hugging them and do more physical contact, one key point here, you have to internalize the idea that you have to lead the interaction, propose the fun plans, talk about the great things u did during the day (unless the ladies feel like chatting so let them talk) and never ever think that its time for the girls to start leading the interaction and get in your confort zone (I made this mistake after making out with a chick and she and her friend ended up leaving, I could have proposed to get back at my hotel and show her the awesome videos of me doing fun stuff in other trips, worst thing she could have said was "no thanks", but since i got too loose i didnt push myself to try it)so fellas learn from my mistakes. ahh bring your digital camara or your cell and take pix of u and the girls, and tell them to do the kiss picture with u (it worked for me like 70% of the time :icon_mrgreen i have like 7 pictures of me kissing different girls and all my buddies think I am the boss now haha. Other thing you can do to demonstrate higher social value is to start dancing with her, if u guys dance country the girls will love it if you spin them and lead them properly. Once you do that, girls will find u more attractive. so to summarize, this time i was able to run my regular game, and thats approaching a table and talk to the girls, being funny, being not afraid to smile, always lead the interaction, getting physical little by little, take pictures and kiss close. The very few times i tried to grab ass on the dance floor the girls didnt respond (but hey it might work for others). thanks to all the ones who replied to this thread, the comments about being confident helped me out and @franco27 , thanx for the advise dude, actually on one of my last nights i got to run into some girls, i had met at the pool , at the lobby and they wanted to go to sr frogs (those foam parties are GREATTTTTT) and i told them i could get them there, man i got the sweetest profile picture ever on my facebook thanx to those chicks, girls from victoria, bc are awesome :icon_mrgreen: one last piece of advise, try to go to the parties the hotel is sponsoring for that day, likely most guests will go to that one, i made the mistake of assuming sr frogs was a crazy party all the time (it is wednesday and saturday) and when i got there on a thursday night and they were closing at 10 pm WTF, i regretted that i didnt go to mandala with the rest of the hotel. Cant wait to go back next year, ok everybody have fun in your future trips
