I don't understand why people with short fuses would even consider choosing a resort that they are likely already to get physical at. The atmosphere there is sexually charged most of the time. If the concern is that much of an issue think to travel elsewhere. Most of the ladies that we have met there did not need a supervisor to set the rules for interaction around them. Yes the issue may get pressed in the sexy pool or in the lounge when all are dressed in danties. The choice to come to adult spring break needs to be thought of with it's pros and it's cons.
Most single guys are so respectable. Last trip we had a couple incidents. Both guys were just jerks. One guy thought that I should want him as much as he wanted me. He asked my husband daily for a hmmmmmmmmmmmm a favor that of course only I could give him then tried too man handle his way to me. That started the first night we got there. Another was just a jerk throwing cans of red bull at people and just happen to get me all wet. I got in his face so bad that night that Johnny called security cause he was sure this guy was gonna hit me after what I called him a big ass............. and d//k.
Define bad experience. Guys just coming up and grabbing or guys you picked up with little d...ks? We like Desire but are checking out TTR specifically for the single guy. Dont get me wrong, we like couples too but its a lot easier to find a 3 way match than a 4 way match, especially when all are straight.
This is dangerous thinking. Just because someone wants to experience a place with a sexually charged atmosphere, doesn't mean they want to experience it with YOU (by "you", I am talking about the person that chooses to involve him/herself in your vacation by becoming physically forward. There are a couple profiles of people that TYPICALLY go to TTR: 1. The single/swingle - they want to meet other singles or play with couples 2. The lifestyle couple - they want to have fun and possibly meet other couples or singles 3. The experimenting/adventurous couple - they want to have fun, but are not there to physically experiment with others. For "profile number 3", TTR is not a swingers resort, although most recognize that swingers do go there. That is the big distinguishing characteristic that makes your comment so dangerous. By suggesting that TTR is a resort that people "are likely already to get physical at" assumes that getting physical means with others...or other strangers. Although you can find rude singles anywhere, let's face it... TTR's culture and atmosphere encourage bold behavior.
Can't help taking notice of this post.... People, humans with common sense usually know how to behave... Sexually charged? if the resort, happens to have an off week and is filled with a very large percentage of single males, that's hardly sexually charged, that raises the possibility of running into a moron that flew in truly believing that the mere fact that he is staying at an "adults only" resort is a guaranteed laid with whomever he chooses.... Can you imagine me, pushing up on the next man's wife at the resort, I am not super bright but I would expect to be smacked, even double smacked.... Some human beings are just simply smarter than others, I don't see why I would have to put up with someone's stupidity and lack of reasoning and logic... With that said...we go out nearly every single weekend...my fuse is short but does not ignite alone, I am very accustomed to men from sorrounding tables befriending me, buying me drinks because of how "cool" I am and then I go to the bathroom and my wife has a bunch of stories to tell me about what was said to her while in my absence. The resort is not sexually charged unless you charge it yourself... I am not traveling with the intentions of pushing up on good looking women, of grabbing women and or crossing the line with women regardless of how attractive the woman may be, unfortunetly some folks have different expectations out of their budget vacation. If I were to push up on you, make you uncomfortable, ruin your day, week, trip....I would expect no less than at the very least being reported to the resort until removed off the premises...
((((me clapping)))) Option 1 & 2 does NOT give anyone the right to assume it's a sure thing, to cross lines, to ruin anyone's stay... Its no different then outside of the resort, if you are looking to get laid does not mean you will for many reasons, one being that maybe you are not attractive to the person that you intend to target and you certainly would not hump every person that you see at the super market check out line, same exact thing, dont arrive at the resort expecting to get laid...save yourself a few grand and open an account on a local adult website instead.... It does not stop being a resort, food, drinks, water, entertainment, fun, it's suppose to be fun, not a free for all sexual buffet.
You guys must all be talking about things I've never seen there. Every situation is different. Each time you meet and have fun with new people, lines are created automatically, within minutes, based on verbal cues, body language, and plain old common sense. I don't think Darcy and I have ever been offended by, or had someone push across those lines. Does that mean no physical contact? Hardly. We are talking about a resort where we body shots, and other physical contact games are played. You guys must be talking about people that aren't socially adept at all or don't care? I mean as adults, it is pretty easy to pick up on what is welcome attention and what is not.
One can only hope....but not always the case.... One has to realize that some folks dont get any action all year long and once they lock into traveling to an "adults only" resort, they think its a check in and pull your whinner out and women will line up to pet it....
I will add one last thing.... IF you do travel to adult only resorts looking for sexual encounters then you are most likely doing your hunting/negotiating out in the open...i.e. flirting, drinks, etc and folks around you will notice that. So if you are on the prowl yourself, granted, no one has the right to push up on you, however, you being on the prowl tells others that are also on the prowl that chances of connecting are greater... My point is, if you were looking for fish but your fishing line is catching the wrong fish, dont say that you had issues with ppl at the resort...what you should say is I went fishing for red snapper but kept catching flounder....and I think that comes with the terretory that you decided to venture in.
