d5332, MattDFW is my hubby...so now you get his views of my PM I sent you None of those incidents bothered me, the guys weren't being obnoxious or inappropriate with anything they said or did to me. I guess I didn't really see it as an "issue" like the hubby did...lol
I agree to disagree....perception affects ppl when they arrive at a place like Temptation, uncertainty of what to expect or false expectations... Can you find or it find you anywhere yes but the probabilty for a drunk fool to step of out line increases.... Can you be shot by a stray bullet anywhere sure, will your chances increase if you go vacay at Ciudad Juarez, exponentially....
AAAAHHHHH I C.... So Red did not see the need to smack anyone therefore it may have been all under control and with out sexual innuendos, say over friendliness.... Its the jollies part that got a rise out of you and I dont blame ya, you are sitting right there, dudes got to have common sense even if its just friendliness..... I see both points and can understand where both of you are coming from.... I dont think I will have this issue with my wife...she does not ride the subway bc she does not like being pressed on by strangers...I on the other hand....she may have an issue with me, lol jk jk jk....
I could see it sometimes happening if you have a large group of people that all know each other from past trips (like in april and may)and there is a lot of friskyness going on and the odd guy thinks its a free for all. :3some: no excuse but pretty much all shut down by the women themselves.:aktion047: kind of funny to watch 3-4 women chastise a poor guy for getting out of line.:angrymad:
I should have explained myself better, Our last trip was with the April Addicts and didn't have any issues and Woody is right lots of back up everyone watched each others backs. We had issues when we went in the winter months. And it was only 2 times, I think the statistics are pretty good considering how many times we've been there. I most point out also that the issues were not serious either, just stupid drunk that didn't know No means No. We are April Addicts now.. LOL Can't wait to see everyone again. Great bunch of people
Ha! so you did have some.... At least now I know to set the tone as soon as I arrive as oppose to waiting to hear apologies... I am short tempered so its best I nip it before it even begins. It will be like when we go out bar hopping, if it sucks we change venue...that where the other pools, beach and acitivities that we want to do come in.....
IF you dont mind me asking.... Where the incidents with people you were interacting with and the person got out of line OR was it with people you did not even realize where next to you, behind you, you had not even spoken one word to? Also, did the incidents have to do with a person being to persistent to the point of disrespectful or physically crossing the line?
