How many couples have had issues w guys being inapropriate w their wive/fg?

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by halifaxdan, Mar 27, 2011.

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Have you had real problems w guys being inapropriate with your wife/gf

  1. No, its never happened

    108 vote(s)
    48.9%
  2. a slight problem but my wife took care of it and he was respectful of that

    57 vote(s)
    25.8%
  3. Yes he had to be told more than once n didn't really get it

    28 vote(s)
    12.7%
  4. yes he actually groped her n i had to step in with authority

    28 vote(s)
    12.7%
  1. Brewster

    Brewster I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    It still amazes me. Only running around 60% that have not had anything happen that they would call troublesome?

    I guess it's all relative, though, huh? Inappropriate can mean different things to different people. And some will have a higher tolerance level than others.
     
  2. missnbluebay

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  3. Brewster

    Brewster I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    Yeah... and it can become a challenge. Like he or they are competing with you for your wife. I get annoyed with the "head butting contest for mating rights" crap. When that does happen I prefer for her to tell him to get lost rather than me. It's a stronger message. If it were to get physical, him groping, forcing himself, etc. then I would step in.

    Fortunately, we haven't had any trouble with jerks like that at TTR.
     
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    my wife would never do it because she hates confrentation and I am sure a little part of her really enjoys the attention and another part of her is nieve enough to think that they are just being friendly.

    part of having a hot wife I suppose. now if someone were to cross the line the Marine in me might come back
     
  5. Brewster

    Brewster I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    If the advances are welcome that's one thing. It's the unwelcome advances and persistence that bother most everyone here. As lots of single guys have said on other threads; be respectful of what is and isn't OK.
     
  6. halifaxdan

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    I'm surprised by the numbers myself. I thought the second one(slight problem) would be leading and around that 50-60%. I've never seen problems n have heard a few complain about it on here(although i'm sure some blow things out of proportions). Brewster is right in saying we all have different levels of apropriateness so that can have to do with more people saying they'ver never had a problem. I'm really happy i've started this poll and even happier about the results. It has also shown how many good friends on here have each other's back(although i've seen that couple days ago when someone tried to attack me THANKS GUYS).
     
  7. blh902

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    We were there in February. Didn't see any problems. Most everyone was very respectful and having a great time. Also, didn't see many singles guys wandering around either.
     
  8. wentcrazy

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    i had a slight issue where some random guy came up and tweekd my nipple so hard it hurt.I was doing shooters out of my boobs and for some reason i guess he thought it was approopriate.I mentioned it o my hubby and he spoke to him and told him it was not cool, he apologized and that was the end of it.
     
  9. chasracer01

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    we had a guy this year get out of line with one of our girls. he came in from behind her & reached over her sholders & grabed her boobs. we were taking a picture fully dress & he said he was dared. the girl turned to punch him but hit one of our other girls. he got escorted from the bar a few minuets later. that was our only problem.
     
  10. Waste

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    Only 1 time, just after the resort expanded. Went for 2 weeks for my bday... Week #2 was first week of spring break.

    A couple guys from an SB group followed my gf & her friend around w/ a video camera for days - from the sexy pool to sports pool to beach to nice shoes. They were spoken to a couple times, but it was never more than a temp fix.

    They got a little touchy one night at Coco Bongo's. It went downhill from there and we all got the boot. Never saw them again. The next day, the Entertainment staff came up and asked if we were ok and assured us the issue had be resolved.

    Not sure I'd count it... It was a 1 time thing and a probably a result of the circumstances. The hotel just expanded and probably discounted a bunch of rooms to hit capacity. It was filled w/ breakers. Never had a similar issue since.
     
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