That makes sense. i think the issue is, ask if you're gonna touch. I have no problem with people joking around with my wife. However if you're not a big enough boy to do when im there, you should probably re-consider why you're doing it in the first place.
We totally enjoyed the hot tub during our visit in Dec. We didn't go every day but often around 5ish till close to 7. Some days it got crazy and other days it was just people having drinks and visiting. Both vibes were great but the crazy days were way more fun!!!!!