Sheer for guys is fine! We've never had an issue. He wore a pair of my panties one year..............he hung out around the edges........he got some whistles............but he wore them until we went to Patty O's Someone may ask you to go change but that's the worst thing that will happen. Back in 2010 some guy wore ladies panties........thigh high hose........and 6 inch heels! He was the "hit" of the night! We called the guy Fabio!
Try N2N Bodywear. They have the lounge shorts that I bought to wear on lingerie night. I bought the ivory color, which are slightly sheer, but if he's shy, he can buy them in navy.
i wore a mesh man thong with glow bracelets wrapped around the cock and balls and i didn't run into any issues... not bad issues.
I always wear see thru or a thong or both. Never had any complaints [emoji106] Always go more daring the next year ! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk