Only place I can find rooms is from Temptation website. Expedia, Orbitz, etc... all seem to be sold out.
we just dont understand the allure of a place that caters to couples, being a solid option for a single man's vacation. When you read on the site, you see that some people are completely closed to the idea, while others are open...Within this debate, which has played out over many threads, there is solid argument both for and against the single man, manly with groups of single men. It just seems to us, if we were the single and we were planning our vacation, why we spend our time, and mainly our hard earned money at a place where some of the guests do not want us there. We would prefer to find a place that caters to the single man, where we would be welcomed by all. No? Doesn't that make the most sense? That said, we personally dont care who books a trip there men, women, couples, etc....Just our 2 cents
I'm single, and I worried about my first trip, too. I would feel like a plus-sized sore thumb if I'm surrounded by lovebirds and no one would even speak to the big single girl at the pool. But the more I talk to folks on here, the more they put my mind at ease. I'm sure everyone will have fun in Cancun -- hell, I could have fun in jail! I say, if a room is available, BOOK IT. I'm excited for my first trip to Temptation and I cannot wait to meet all these new people who are just as loud and crazy as I am!
Whether TTR is a good destination for a single guy depends entirely on what he's hoping to get out of his trip. It seems that some assume most single guys come to TTR to hook up with one or several women or to leer at topless married girls. Creepers are the minority. I have met many single guys at TTR who come every year to meet up and party with old friends and make new ones. Many of the single guys I've met there are the life of the party and I'm glad they were confident enough to come.
Well to be honest, I have been married for 40+ years and I do find myself ,on occassion, "leering" at toppless, very attractive, married gals. I assume "leering" is looking and smiling at the same time??
I'd say what you described would be 'admiring' topless girls...and all normal red blooded guys do that. 'Leering', to me would be the guy alone in the corner by himself, hiding behind a palm tree, holding a camera and wearing a trench coat.
It's not a lovey dovey all romantic-y place for couples. It's a place to have fun, and if I was single it's probably the ONE place I'd know I could go on vacation and have fun...but I'm a girl. I know I'd surely feel unwelcome after reading some of the posts here, but if a guy is honorable and polite, no reason for him not to venture anywhere he wants, Temptation resort included. I just don't think it's fair to lump all guys into one bad pot. Too much generalizing going on. Singles are individuals, too...someone's son, someone's brother, and just because they happen to not have a SO to travel with...well, it's just not right to try and keep them from a good time. Oh, and if you know of any vacation places that cater to single men...what are they? I've never heard of such a place, except maybe for those that cater to single gay men. Oh, and I wish people with babies and small children could tune into that vibe you mention about not vacationing where some of the guests do not want them there!
