rice is a good woman, drinking tea and vitamin water. and i need help guys.. some asian guy asked me out for tomorrow bowling and have dinner with him, and i really dont want to go, but then i accidently pick up the phone last week and he was so insist.. and i said fine, but i have to be home at 10pm. then i regret to actually agree to it, because i will go out with my friend to watch spider man tomorrow and i really want to see spider man3 then we can go clubbing.. and i dont know what to said to the guy. i know it might sound childish but can i not pick up the phone tomorrow?
Um, you can call him and cancel the date. If you don't want to go out with a guy, simply tell him you're not interested. His fragile ego will get over it.
I agree with Dennis... tell him the truth...if you give him an excuse he'll think it's perfectly fine to ask you again...then you'll be in the situation all over again... most people appreciate being told the truth...he'll get over it... would you want someone to either go through the motions with you when they know they're not interested...or make up some excuse to save your ego???? probably not...
what if he is that type of guy looking for a marriable young maiden. sis thinks i'm evil, and thinks that he is such a nice guy.. but i dont like good guys.. i'm only into guys who know how to play around and defintely challenging.. okay, i text him, said i have a birthday party to attend tomorrow, cant go to bowling tomorrow.. i dont want to call him.. i'm so childish..
berries, he didnt said he likes me, i can't tell him i dont like you so stop asking me out.. then he would said i never said i like you.. then i will be totally embarrassing myself..
oooook...so much for that.. :lol: hopefully he doesn't go clubbing the same places as you... that could be an awkward situation.... :?
well generally guys don't ask girls out solo unless there is some sort of interest...unless you have been friends for years or something... most guys aren't looking around for new female friends....they typically enjoy the company of other guys to just hang out with....