Hello All, Looking forward to our first trip to Temptation later this month. We have read enough to know what to expect and cant wait to escape this rainy January here in Cali. Our question is about the massages, specifically the sensual massages and the tantric massage. We have read enough to know generally what to expect with the senual massage, but cannot find any info on the Tantric massage. Does anyone have any insight? Also, kind of having a rough time deciding what I (the male) should be wearing on theme nights. It seems pretty cut and dry for women, but men not so much. Are most men in theme or is hit or miss? Thanks!
Hey there! We will be there Jan 29-Feb 6 for our 3rd trip. Can’t help with the massage, we’ve only had a regular couples massage there. For theme nights, we find it fun for both to dress up to theme, you’ll see some people participating and some not. Some of the funnest outfits we have seen have been on men! We usually go for at least a week and choose one night that we don’t do theme, we just go in our dinner outfits or take that night to just chill. I feel theme nights can cause the most overthinking, especially for first timers, it did for us! lol Just have fun with it and wear what you’re comfy in. lingerie night is easy for a guy, just dress pants and my hubby wears a tie that matches my lingerie. For burning land he wears a kilt and steampunk style stuff, glow night is neon swim shorts and tank and we use glow paint. We’ve seen people themed out super simple to as wild as you can imagine. It’s all about what’s fun to You! Hope that helps some!
We are headed down the 14th-17th for our 5th trip. As for men's theme night outfits, rocking a pair of boxer briefs that ties into the theme is an easy way to participate if you don't want to go all out.
Thanks for the advice! Definetly think we are overthinking a bit here, espcially with tons of cheap stuff we can just buy on Amazon and return if we never end up using.
Same! Amazon and Shein. If you do order from shein, you’ll want to do that soon as it takes about 2 weeks to get. But we’ve gotten great stuff from them for theme nights and great prices!
