it is our first time at TTR and we were a bit worried about single guys trying it on when my hubby leaves me on my own. it would spoil our holiday if they wont take no for an answer.
I've said this before in the current atmosphere at TTR the majority of the single guys look very frustrated by the end of their stay and that is likely why "some" of them behave so poorly.
Its really a non issue to be honest. We were there this past Feb and had one small issue. I resolved it right away and never was an issue again. For the most part single guys are respectful, but add drinks and drunkness and sometimes its an issue, but I wouldn't worry. For the most part couples always look out for other couples.
sure they will get the message if we tell them politely but if not sure someone will help out. very nervous about going but we have been in situations before and they get the message in the end if you know what i mean. Do like being rude to them but when they are drunk it is the only way some accept it.
If your goal is to hook up with a different girl every night. Probably not your place. You can meet them out going to clubs every night but won't be able to bring them back with you. If your goal is to have fun, then this is the place. Just be respectful as the above posts.
You have nothing to wory about or concern yourself. Relax and enjoy your stay at TTR and everything will be great, fun and respectful
If all large groups would just remember that everyone at TTR has spent alot of money and time away from home in anticipation of having a great time. You guys can have a great time also. Be respectful and have fun. We went last july and there were a few single ladies but not many. wife and i met several single guys who we enjoyed partying WITH. we will be there on 18 th also have a good time
Sounds like you guys would have a lot more fun at another resort IMO TTR is set up for couples and even though there are some singles that vaca there its never in a group of more then a few. You guys cant even do the Boobs Cruise and that's a blast. You can save yourself trouble and just book at another resort.
I think one of the things to remember here is that if there are 20 single guys behaving perfectly well but one complete douchebag, the people that have the misfortune to interact with him will only remember that negative experience and not the positive ones. In April we met many single people, both male and female, and had a great time with all of them. I honestly wouldn't want the resort to go couples only and lose those experiences. That being said, there were three times I had a bad experience with single guys, one drive-by boob grab in Paty'o's, one drunk guy in the pool who latched onto Ali and was disrespectful to me and a psychotic Jamaican who was just a menace in general. There's enough security and protective husbands around to handle people like this though and I didn't see much more, certainly not enough for me to advocate banning all single males completely. It's all about respect. Oh, and be very, very careful with cameras.
I really think jerks are just gonna be jerks...whether they're single or not. I also think good people are good people...whether they're single or not. Just avoid the jerks...and don't be one yourself. I've honestly never met a jerk at TTR...couple or single. It's impossible to ban jerks...and banning singles will eliminate too many good and fun people.
