My wife and I had been trying to get to Temptations for the past several years, but something always seemed to come up. Not this time as we finally made it the last week of April and a few days in May. What a fantastic experience! Everyone seems to refer to 'alternative lifestyle' couples here, and there were a fair number of them running around, but when it comes to place to reconnect with your spouse and stir up the old magic Temptations is second to none. The pros easily overwhelm the cons in our opinion. We used Happy Shuttle Cancun to get from the airport to the resort and they were excellent. $26 each way and very courteous drivers. Check-in was a breeze, and although our room was not ready at 10:00 a.m. they stored our luggage so we could go have some breakfast at the Rain Buffet. The dreaded sales pitch we feared never materialized, and if anything the young woman who showed us around (Paty) was gracious and very understanding when we told her that we were not interested in a premiere membership at this time. By noon we were in the sexy pool and there we stayed right through the crazy foam party. We finally made it to our room and dined at Flame that evening (which was very good). We hit every restaurant for the seven days we were there, and it was difficult to chose a favorite. But, the coconut shrimp I had at the Sea Flirt restaurant may have been the best shrimp I had ever had. Only SHE was a little disappointing, because we thought the portions were a bit on the small side there. As for the theme parties they varied from great to boring. Super heroes night was awesome (batman and bat girl), but some of the parties were weak (especially lingerie night). Even though we met a ton people throughout the week, you never knew who you were going to meet at the parties. And, trying to hold a conversation over the loud music was almost impossible. One suggestion that I made when we returned to the states is that Temptations should have a 'Meet & Greet' each evening from 7 to 8 p.m. for first-timers. When making your first visit you would be welcome at all the 'Meet & Greet' sessions that week. This would allow people to get to know one another quicker, and it would help the more reserved couples get into things around the pool a little faster. The premiere membership people could even set up a booth that could assist for those with questions about this. Overall, we had a fantastic time and will likely return again next year. Or, maybe even wait for the new Temptations to open in Punta Cana in 2020. So, if you're not sure if this is right place for you don't worry! Just relax and enjoy yourself. My wife and I met couples ranging from their 20's to their 70's, and from at least 15 U.S. states and 5 Canadian provinces (not to mention the U.K.). It is so much friendlier here than many other resorts in this area, and it's far more than just a topless optional resort for swingers. And, for all that you get for the money I even considered it a good value. Can't wait to return!