We agree with Miranda about the misconception about what Desire or Desie Week is all about. Some people believe that because you go there that you are some kind of sexual flake, that you only go there for sex. Desire was/is a lifestyle friendly resort not a sex club like the Red Roster in Las Vegas. We have been to Desire twice and was never bothered by swingers. Other than being asked if we were swingers or not, once we replied that we were not the swingers were polite and we still had a good/fun time with them at the pool and spa. We were not pushed to play by anyone. Most swingers that we have met are great people and not pushy at all.
ditto here. we're not 'officially' swingers either, but those who were were respectful and VERY nice to hang out with.