Not sure how it started but we went from a simple couple for 20yrs into having erotic fantasy conversations and looking to book a trip to a Desire resort. Years ago she made it clear if she ever found out of was cheating she would cut my dick off but now all of a sudden wants to see another women give me a blowjob. I asked if she had a threesome in mind and she wants me to fuck another women from behind while that women eats her out. What spiked this change? Now that we’ve been talking about this so called bucket list will we be able to find a female willing? I told her it will be a challenge for a husband to be willing to be okay with his wife if nothing was in it for him and she wants no part of that.