I am another one of those who does not want to be easily outted online. We put a face photo in our profile to slow down the casual creepers. I value my reputation as a straight laced, family oriented professional. I don't drink a lot at home, I keep my skirts to my knee and my heels under 3 inches. I err to the side of "Mary Poppins". But as it turns out, I do drink, wear skimpy clothes, and party like a college co-ed on her first trip off the farm. You are welcome to join us! So, just to keep myself from waking at 2 am wondering if my postings will get me in trouble, I stick to the kissy face avatar.