Nothing to be initimidated by Blue Bay. The place is awesome, always something going on all the time. Entertainment staff is the best. It's like a Spring Break for adults, no 17-18 year old punks running around drunk for the first time in their life puking everywhere. People are respectfull there to each other. Tons of sports to play in and out of the pool all day long. I've been to resorts all over the south many many times and this is the only resort I have gone back. It's very social and easy to meet people. And as far as the topless thing, I do go topless all week.