You don't have to dump him totally. If there are things you enjoy doing with him then do them. You don't have to be married or commited to each other. My main rule is be happy. There will always be fights and what not. But if there is something that keeps coming up or something that you doubt then surely don't stay with him. I know there are things that Kristy and I do to each other that people probably think "Wow, I wouldn't put up with that" but we don't see them. There are no little things or repetitive things that come up in our relationship. Again, if I am not happy most of the time then it doesn't work for me. And yes I am unhappy sometimes but it is not because of any little things in our life. Dump him, Do me, Dump me
Quality comment however may I make one slight alteration.. Dump him, do me , dump me do James, dump James. Sorted. Ian. :lol: :lol: Next..............