ok...to squash the rumors and the theories, I can offer this first hand testimony....I did meet AJ while I was there and I met his lovely lady as well. And it is true, that he asked for her hand and her reply was a "Yes". They still had to tell her father when they got back home, so i dont know how that went.
We saw them both briefly at the resort as well, but they weren't on the Boobs Cruise with us. He competed in the beer drinking competition and I saw him around the pool a couple of times. Other than that we didn't see them.