I have a problem every year because my GF gets mad that I leave her home. My trip usually consist of all guys and really not the perfect atmosphere for a single girlfriend to tag along. Now, a lot of you may call bullshit, but my intentions are not to leave my girl at home to sex it up while I am in Cancun. It's more of a time to relax, without having to please anyone but myself, and enjoy some very good times with my close friends. I think it would be better to bring my girl if there were other girls going or even other girl friends, that way I could leave the ladies to commiserate most of the time without me having to worry about the wants and expectations of my girlfriend. She gets even more mad when I say that its either I go with my friends or I don't go at all, which is understandable. However, I am trying to explain to her that spring break in cancun isn't really a perfect romantic vacation. If I am going to spend extra money to bring my girlfriend, then I'd much rather go someplace where I can spend more intimate time with her. She knows I go every year and ever year has the same little hiss fit before reaching the conclusion that its not so bad. Hell, last year she went to Vegas with her friends while I was in Cancun with mine, which I think is great. I am hitting a speed bump this year because I don't think her friends are making plans for March. Now, I have to figure a way to smooth things over so that I can enjoy my vacation the way I'd like to. Am I just being a dick? You have to understand that notion of a trip of 6 guys and my one lone girlfriend isn't the perfect situation for me.