Bachelor Party At Temptation- Looking for tips,expectations,etc.

The vast majority of people show up at TTR & have never heard about CancunCare and only know its an Adults Only hotel - So we have met LOTS of twenty somethings from the midwest who kept their tops on/off and partied all day & night having a great time.

The people on this forum talk it up like its really raunchy and over the top. Head on over to the Balcony Shows thread - we've been 3X to Cancun and never seen one balcony show and most people in that thread had not seen one either in there 3 -12 trips.

One occurrence as reported by a CCC member does not mean it happens multiple times a day, once a day or even once a week. It makes for a great story though!

Oh and the public sex occurs on beds at 2am in far off place in secluded areas of the beach - just like so many other tropical resorts, but of course, people here would have you believe it only happens at TTR and no other resort. Adults on vacation are gonna get a bit frisky and who doesn't want to have a romantic time on the beach?

I think my wife would rather me party at TTR than a local bar - I have a greater chance of getting laid at a bar than at TTR. The whole single girl to single guy ratio at TTR is completely out of whack.

 

Joel I do apologize for my post, Thank you for being honest, we were all druped from a previous prank, wasted alot of time replying to this previous prank, and felt betrayed, and probably be taking out on you, and markgrecs. To that I do apologize. I Hope you guys have the time of your lives at TTR.

 

You asked the views of the members of this sight, please don't be offended when it is given. The past behavior of larger groups of single guys is what your group is being judged on. It may not be fair but it is what it is. TTR is mostly filled with couples that is true. However singles for the most part do fit in and have a blast. Please don't let anything you get from this sight ruin your trip. If I could give you one word to help make your trip more fun it would be respect and that goes both ways. You should expect the same in return from all. One last thing enjoy your trip!

 

There is no reason to apologize please. Everyone in my world that i know works hard for a vacation I just hope we all get what we want out of it and have the time of your life while respecting your fellow travelers. With that said have a blast and party like there is no tomorrow.

Oh yeah one more thing Go Bruins. Not the UCLA ones either.

 

Please "normal" isn't any fun!!!!!!

 

Joel I hope you and your friends have a blast. I personally can't wait to party with you!
Alli.

 

we were there beginning of march and there was a bach. party of 12 I believe or maybe it was 8?? (Sorry too many drunken nights to remember) talked to them a few days they went out at night mostly because of the negativity they were getting at the night scene....Anyways we talked to them on our last day (theirs as well) and they said they had a great time. they didn't stay on the resort much though they said

 

The point I was trying to make was not what goes on that would be shock but do the wives/girlfriends of the 10 guys know where they are going ....
AND APPROVE OF THEM GOING knowing that they will be surrounded by lots of bare skin and scantily clad other ladies .....

 

Jesus people! Take a chill pill!!!!!

People come here all the time to mess with us and you can usually tell after the first few minutes of the conversation, at least those of us that have been here for a while can, so if you're unsure, stop answering them but for god's sake stop attacking everyone you question!

Every one of you have come here with stupid questions and were not attacked, so at least show the courtesy to others that you were shown.

Now to Joel... I posted this in the May roll call but wanted to post it here too to make sure you saw it......

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A lot of folks have already said this, but here's another... We don't have problems with Bachelor Parties per se.... what we do have problems with, and is why I warned the 12 British lads coming later in the month also, is the mindset that sometimes comes out what there is a large group of guys... and trust us, we're all guys and have all been there sometimes in our lives, one of two things happen.. first one of the group has a few too many and see a topless beauty shaking her ass and thinks, I need to get me some of that.. and wanders over.. you've seen it.. something sexy happening and some guy has just got to screw it up.. anyway, he heads over and starts rubbing away, the topless beauty's husband objects to the unsolicited rubbing and the wandering guy feels possession is 9/10th of the law and objects to the objection. Voices are raised and then the wandering guys friends do the guy code thing and back their guy up and all hell breaks loose.

Situation two.. and we’ve seen this too… large number of guys.. “so we own the joint. It wasn’t cool before we got here but it is now. Hey baby, how about you dump that loser your with and hang with the cool kids.” To be honest, I personally have been physically pushed away from a lady I was talking to so that a couple of young studs could get up next to her. Yeah she wasn’t my wife but there have been a few cases where the husband was pushed away so these guys could talk to the wife.

So you see in a sexually charge environment where after a few, well more than a few over the years, of these incidents happen the words bachelor party and large group of guys strike fear and instant dislike into the minds of regulars.

That being said, there have been bachelor parties and large groups of guys that have gone and intermixed well into the group and had a great time. We are basically a very accepting crowd in May and welcome everyone until they should that they themselves should not be welcome.

You get there and leave before me, I don’t get there till the 10th, but I really hope to hear from those that are still there that you all came, mixed with the group and had a fantastic time. I really do. It’s all up to you and your friends.

Now, I won’t say that there will be some that will always have their walls up. Life is like that and there are some in every crowd no matter what the crowd or reason is. But I personally know the vast majority of the folks you will be there with and know that you will be judged and accepted on your merits and your’s alone. So you have the ability to make or break your vacation. Well you and your friends.

So let’s get back to the party eh?

Jamie



Now I will add to this that TTR is mostly about the tease. You will see a lot of actions and activity that looks like someone is just begging for someone to do something. But remember that’s what it is.. a tease.. remember that and everything will be fine. Hell, treat it like a strip club with no stage. Look but don’t touch.

And like a strip club you may get invited up to the champagne room. But never initiate that invitation or you’ll never go. If they want you, they will ask.

On behalf of the more seasoned regulars here I apologize for your treatment, hopefully we can get this back on an even keel before you get an ulcer on a trip you haven’t even taken yet.

Jamie

 

very well spoken Jamie. That's why you are the Mayor