I found the right term for bi-lazy around here they call it by-comfortable. Which means that the woman isn't bi but doesn't mind a bi-woman playing with her. *L*
Can't agree with this, be easier to call it bi-selfish or bi-boring or bi-only doing it because my husband wants to see me do it lol. I (les)have seen to many women pretending to be bi when they are only doing it for thier partner so they go down the 'I'll take but won't give' route. It's simple, any type of sex with someone of the same sex makes you bi.
I was just sat here thinking my post was a bit harsh because I should have added each to thier own and everyones levels are different etc. I think it's hard for me (les) to understand the am I aren't I thing because I have a bi wife and things are black & white but there's one little thing I forgot and that's that it took Lynfa about 2 years to admit she was bi even though she gave (a lot) and took (a lot) lol. So I think 4biddenpleasrs post is probably spot on for a lot of people. I'm just so glad Lynfa is the way she is xxx
