I agree with Donna and Tim. My wife and I went to TTR three times before we went on the Boobs Cruise. Depending on the trip, it might be a little too much, but we are glad we went and a had a fantastic time. Age or shape does not define beauty. I truly believe your wife will enjoy. Everyone always talks about the sexy pool. But me and my wife enjoy the quiet pool and the old sports pool. Just go to sexy pool for some of the games. The guests and the wonderful staff at TTR and Boobs Cruise will treat you with respect and not pressure you to go outside your comfort zone.(maybe a little nudge)
If she can get through the Boobs Cruise a few days at TTR will be a breeze! Maybe schedule it early in the trip so you can come back on a day pass when she realizes how ridiculously fun it is. Or just abandon the other room and stay at TTR.
Your name on here is Luv2havefun... That says something about you two. The above posts are all SPOT-ON... GREAT for a couple, the most non-judgemental place you'll likely ever encounter, and so much fun. But we know you are in... Here is an idea... Have your wife come on here and read some of these posts. It really is all the say, and I guarantee there will be WAY more judging at any of the other resorts and pools than at at TTR. Not even close...
There all ages......all body types, and all are completely accepted. No one really gives a shit, everyone is part of the party if they want to be. We've been a bunch of times and have never seen anyone left out. About the topless thing.....a good number of women will keep their tops on. It'd be fine for her at TTR........but if she doesn't like the idea......don't push her.