This is the key. There is no unwritten rule. People have this impression that TTR guest are swingers or extra flirty so you are allowed to behave differently. They are still ladies and need to be treated with respect. Be respectful as you would back home at the bar or club and you guys will have a great time and meet a lot of great people. Act like an A$$ and you will be ostracized very quick and have to have your own litte party of 10.
yes, i understand that. i wasn't thinking of it as swingers resort but more in terms of just regular etiquette since it seemed the majority are regulars. i can assure you that none of us are a$$holes and won't act like that drunk or sober. some may hold their alcohol better than others but that's about it. plus we're most likely going to self police ourselves. Thank you for the tips.
Quote: Originally Posted by JanScott But you can paint me with the same brush 100% of the time Weird fetish I have, lol. Damn the cat is outta the bag now Thank you and miss you guys like crazy. Can't wait to see you again.
Observation I wonder why a group of guys from anywhere would want to go to a resort advertised as adults only . And also advertised as a liberated environment where the drink flows all day and night and the theme nights are put on for ladies to show off. And then we expected to beleive they will behave themselves when drunk . Mmmmmmmm I wonder .
ok, my 2 cents just watch each others backs, respect the ladies try and get the other guys on the forum and make friends on here so you will have ppl thier too party with and show you around. the ppl on CCC are all great and always willing to help and give advice. if thier is someone in yr group going that you know that has issues with booze, anger, ect.. just make sure you keep an eye on them. other wise have a blast and you will make plenty of new friends and deff look in too the theme nights .
I sometimes ask that same question about some of the married guys I've seen there... and I'm sure there have been days over the years when people have asked the same question about me. Jamie
inuyarik, it really speaks well of you that you're taking the initiative to prevent problems. If all your friends are like you, you're going to make everyone's trip to TTR more fun. To me, the discomfort can be just as much about it being a "large group" as it is about being "single." I think we've all been traumatized by junior high, so when we see a large group huddling together, we can go a bit on the defensive! I think everyone hates that feeling of walking past a group, they look, then suddenly they all start whispering to each other and laughing. Or how about when they all get more loud and rowdy than they'd ever be if they didn't have strength in numbers and end up dominating the whole atmosphere? So, my advice is to do your best to be a "group" but not a "clique." Don't egg each other on. Don't outshout everyone else at the bar. Don't snicker at the way people are dressed. Don't touch anything that doesn't belong to you without permission. Do go out of your way to be complimentary. Take a protective attitude toward the women, not a predatory one, and you'll be more than welcomed.
I'm curious as to how a group of guys this size, on a bachelor vacation, would come to the impression that Temptations was the place to go. Did someone recommend it, had one of you been before? Just curious as to the process.
I agree with all of these tips. Kudos to you for even asking the questions you are for your group of single guys. That in itself shows you may fit in more than you know. No touching without invitation, no photos, and common courtesy will do you just fine. If someone in your group steps out of line, you will likely know it. Cancuncare and TTR are protective of each other, which I like. We came to TTR for the first time last May and there was a group of about 6 strapping, single guys from Europe. Rugby players I heard. When they first arrived standing by the pool many of us ladies thought they were part of the daily entertainment. Haha. They stuck out I can tell you. But they were sweet, respectful and fun and a fun addition to the pool. We spoke with one of the guys who did say they had no idea when they booked the trip, that TTR was mostly for couples. But they made the best of it, and so did everyone else. When singles visit TTR it still can mean meeting great people and making new friends. Welcome to TTR and Cancuncare.
