I’d give her the benefit of the doubt. I have a coworker who went there last year with a group of his friends of his and had no idea what it was about. His face was all smiles when he got back. Funny enough (not really), his wife does not know he went to that resort and he’s scared to tell her because of the optics. Your girl told you so I’d give her credit for that.
Yep... She took her top off, wore an eye patch for her bikini bottom, made out with an equal number of both men and women, and generally had the time of her life! She is lying about one thing though... Nobody likes the room decor.
It was a girl of course, a guy would be like a no and she would feel the same way if I went on a trip with a girl as well. I never worry about her, she just went on a trip a few months ago by herself with her friend and I had zero issue. My problem is what this resort is about, and what it induces. Even if you don't go planning on doing anything, I could see why you would be "TEMPTED" to is my problem
How am I supposed to know? That's why I made this post, I had no idea what it was like there. The way she made it sound theres dicks and boobs swinging everywhere around you and you're in a committed serious relationship. I'm sure you wouldn't feel great about your partner going to a strip club without you correct?
Perhaps that is the difference... I trust him to have a great time without feeling so insecure. he has done so more than once, but then so have I so....
But you see where im coming from right? He's afraid to tell his wife because it's bad so that's how I feel about it initially
Oh really? So how should I feel when I get yelled and passive aggressively attacked when I go play pool at the bar with my friends?
That is exactly how i feel about it because while all you guys see is me making this post, you don't know how she acts with me to understand why I'm upset. I get told I can't hang out down the street with my guys at a McDonald's but she's allowed to go to an all out half nude resort?
Yeah Temptations isn't a good place for you two and it may never be. It definitely isn't for everyone and that isn't a bad thing.
