So apparently a good friend of mine is going to have a facelift a boob job and a tummy tuck this year! Basically she's going to be completely different the next time i see her! I'm a little worried that just to hang out with her I'm going to need to dress to impress all of the time. I'm concerned she'll be so popular that I'll need to call and book time with her like 10 months in advance. Currently the only time that I need to plan ahead to see her is over Halloween. Also I'm thinking that once she's invested this kinda cash on herself she may want to hang out with people with a lot more money than I have! I'm really going to miss her this year! Does anyone else worry about losing one of their best friends after their makeover?
If she is a true friend won't matter. "Jobs" in peeps don't change the person. Hanging out shouldn't change. Edited because my typing skills were less than stellar. But I hang by my comments.
Took me a second! Very witty. Yeah hopefully your friendship will evolve and all the great things you love about your friend will stay the same.
i certainly support her Desire to look hotter and sexier (a good diet and a little time in the gym never hurt anyone)..... but i think all her new friends are gonna be pretentius boring pozers who keep their tops on. Maybe it's time to give that Jamaican girl a chance?
Adjusting the outside package shouldn't affect the inside. If she's a good person and a level-headed, loyal friend, why would she want to lose you? Then again, if she's doing this because she's already a pretentious social climber on the inside, she might move on eventually even without surgery. There's really nothing to lose. I would predict she'll have stages: pain and swelling and second-guessing, excitement and wanting to show it off and getting a little obnoxious with the attention, then kind of a leveling out--where hopefully she will feel more confident, but not in an arrogant way. I guarantee no amount of surgery is going to make her "so popular you'll need to book with her in advance." It's not a personality lift!
We've met your friend a few times. Your concerns are entirely justified. But let's be honest: Despite her apparent popularity, that ho ain't as young and pretty as she used to be. Frankly, she needs to get that work done.
I think the makeover is going to do wonders for her soul. She was tired and getting a little sad but will now feel rejuvenated. She may get some new friends for sure but I think those friends will see her old friends as a plus and want to be friends with them too. I say let her have her time while you sit back and embrace the change. When we are open to change beautiful things can happen.
We've met your friend and can say this about her. Appearances aside, as long as that sexy old bar bitch does something to prevent making her acquaintances ill after spending a week or more under her spell we welcome her transformation. If she doesn't upgrade her lungs, and we're not talking a boob job, we'll be seeking a healthier 'ho next time we're in the mood for a walk on the wet 'n wild side.
Thanks to all of you for the clever wording of your insight and advice on what I should do and how I should feel about it. I love the positive thoughts about how it will do wonders for her soul and she will likely end up an even better friend after the badly needed makeover. Funcupl27 I may have to start hanging with the Jamaican girl this winter, but the last time I seen her she needed a much more intrusive makeover than the Mexican girl! LOL! Thanks Everyone! I feel better about it!
