Ok the xxx was just to get somebody's attention. The wife and I are most definitely not swingers - far from it. But we like to have fun (mostly me showing her off). First time to spend a few days at Sens. Is there any fun to be had?? Charley (fake name). Charley Sheen was just in the news!
We did sens last summer and it was ok. Only a few women go topless. We are headed to temptations this year for 1st time
What did you like about Sens? We've done Couples Negril & Hidden Beach but might not be quite ready for the party atmosphere of Temptations. Is Sens a good place to start to break the ice?
Sens is pretty quiet compared to TTR. TTR has a livelier and sexier atmosphere and eventhough you're not all out swingers (we're not either), I do appreciate showing off my sexy wife in her hot outfits. She says that TTR makes her feel sexy, allows her to park her inhibitions and let out her wilder side. We both enjoy being voyeurs and in turn putting on the odd balcony show for others to enjoy. This stuff is rare at Sens and doesn't really fly. Sens is too vanilla for us.
First resort we did was couples san souci. Next trip was oasis since she wasn't sure if TTR was right for us at the time. While there she said we made a mistake and should have just done TTR. It's easier to ease into it at TTR as not everyone is topless and in thongs. Her in a thong and topless at oasis was only one of a few. Her topless was one of about 5-10 depending on the day. Overall, we wish we would have skipped oasis and went to TTR first. We had a good time and met some friendly people at Oasis but the atmosphere and people we met at TTR doesn't even compare. TTR is really what you make it from wild to mild. Everything Brenda & mark said is spot on.
Unless you are a prude and are offended at people having an R rated good time, there is nothing to ease into. The saying "Nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit." Goes both ways. No one cares how uninhibited you are (as long as it's R rated) and no one cares if you are the church lady, as long as you don't kill the vibe. I doubt seriously that you are as inhibited as I was on my first trip, and I was solo with a 1 piece. (Well, for the first three days at least!)